Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there.
I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there.
I did not die.
"Written at least 50 years ago, this poem has been
attributed at different times to J.T. Wiggins (an English 'migr' to America),
two Americans: Mary E. Fry and Marianne Reinhardt, and more recently to
Stephen Cummins, a British soldier killed in Northern Ireland who left a copy
for his relatives. Others claim it is a Navajo burial prayer.
The following was taken from The London Magazine December / January
2005:
Mary Elizabeth Frye nee Clark was born in Dayton, Ohio, on November 13th 1905.
She died on September 15th 2004. Mary Frye, who was living in Baltimore at the
time, wrote the poem in 1932. She had never written any poetry, but the plight
of a German Jewish girl, Margaret Schwarzkopf, who was staying with her and
her husband, inspired the poem. She wrote it down on a brown paper shopping
bag. Margaret Schwarzkopf had been worrying about her mother, who was ill in
Germany. The rise of Anti-Semitism had made it unwise for her to join her
mother. When her mother died, she told Mary Frye she had not had the chance to
stand by her mother's grave and weep.
Mary Frye circulated the poem privately. Because she never published or
copyrighted it, there is no definitive version. She wrote other poems, but
this, her first, endured. Her obituary in The Times made it clear that
she was the undisputed author this famous poem, which has been recited at
funerals and on other appropriate occasions around the world for seventy
years. A 1996 Bookworm poll named it the Nation's Favourite Poem"
[London Magazine Editor, Sebastian Barker] "
This poem was read at George Best's Funeral 3rd December 2005
